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Music Practice Dos and Don’ts


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Have you ever sat down for practice time and felt the tension rising before the first note is even played? 🎹


Parents hope for progress, kids just want it to be fun, and suddenly practice can feel like a tug-of-war. But here’s the truth: practice doesn’t have to be a battle! With a few simple shifts, it can actually become one of the happiest, most connecting parts of your day—a time when music builds confidence, joy, and memories for both you and your child.


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Here are some simple Dos and Don’ts to help you guide your future musician’s practice at home:


✅ DO: Keep It Positive

Celebrate effort, not just perfection! A cheerful “I love how you remembered that part!” or “Your hands are getting stronger!” goes a long way in building confidence. Kids thrive when they feel supported, not corrected at every turn.


❌ DON’T: Turn Practice into Punishment

Music should never feel like a chore or consequence. Instead of “Go practice because you didn’t clean your room,” connect practice to joy: “Let’s play your song before dinner so we can enjoy it together!”


✅ DO: Make It Short and Sweet

Children learn best in bite-sized chunks. Five minutes of focused, playful practice is far more effective than twenty minutes of frustration. Short sessions sprinkled throughout the day work beautifully.


❌ DON’T: Compare Your Child to Others

Every musician’s journey is unique. Instead of saying “Your sister played this faster,” try “You’re improving from last week!” Celebrate your child’s individual growth.


✅ DO: Create a Routine

Kids love rhythm and predictability. A set time for practice—like after school or before bedtime—helps music become part of the daily flow. Routines build habits that last a lifetime.


❌ DON’T: Expect Perfection Overnight

Music is a process. Skills like rhythm, pitch, and coordination take time to develop. Be patient, and remember that wrong notes are part of the learning journey.


✅ DO: Join the Fun

Clap along, sing together, or let your child “teach” you. The more playful and interactive practice feels, the more likely your child will look forward to it. Music was made to be shared!


The eternal music practice struggle: "Do I have to?" 😩 If this sounds familiar, this quick video offers a great tip on how to handle a reluctant child and why when you ask them to practice is crucial!

Final Note for Parents

At Let’s Play Music, we remind families that music is not about producing flawless performers—it’s about nurturing confident, creative children who love making music. With these simple do’s and don’ts, you can transform practice into one of the most meaningful (and fun!) parts of your child’s day.



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