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We purposefully cultivate relationships

Updated: Jul 24, 2025



Our goal in teaching music is to create musicians, but we also hope these very special years give parents a chance to strengthen and build some valuable connections between you and your children. As teachers, we purposefully cultivate relationships with our students, parents, and communities.

 

Not surprisingly, our amazing successes in teaching young students come about in large part because we recognize that families play a key role in children's lives as they establish habits, tastes, and values on the road to independence. If the household has an attitude that "music is what we do" and "it's fun to play musical games" and "we relax and unwind with music", the children adopt those viewpoints!

 

We really care how our families feels about music, and we truly care that parents are connected with your child! Whatever structure your family has, you'll be spending time together, solving problems, and taking care of each other. That's good for life and it's good for music-learning. 










We hope you'll go to class with a can-do attitude: "I'm gonna seize opportunities to connect with my kid during class!" 

 

Here's an analogy: most parents stand BEHIND their kids while pushing them on a swing.  Sure, the kiddo enjoys a super-fun ride and enjoys having Mom at the park.  Some parents get more connection: they stand in FRONT of their kid while pushing.  That way they can make eye contact and smile every time the kiddo swings past.  

  But, finally, SOMEONE went and took it to an epic level by inventing a swing that lets Mom get the most connection by actually participating in the fun.  Mom still smiles and makes eye-contact, but she also subtly teaches: "This is a fun thing to do. I like to do this thing with you and I like doing this because I'm with you. I like to participate/ learn/ practice this skill, and I invite you to join me.

 

Being on that double-swing is like going to music class and actually singing along to the songs!  It's like doing the solfege hand-shapes and smiling at your child when you see she's doing them, too.  It's doing your best Frog-in-the-Middle dance and not worrying about sweat during Johnny's Haircut. It's being just a bit silly and being totally present, because you want to be there with your child.  And if you don't like skipping to Sally Goes Round the Moon? Tell yourself, "I like doing it because I am doing it with you." 

 

31 Comments


Guest
6 hours ago

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Guest
20 hours ago

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Jun88
a day ago

Trong quá trình đọc các thảo luận, mình có để ý thấy Jun88 được nhắc qua nên thử vào xem cho biết. Mình chỉ xem nhanh tổng thể chứ chưa tìm hiểu sâu, nhưng cảm giác ban đầu là cách trình bày khá thoáng, bố cục rõ ràng, nhìn vào không bị rối mắt.

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Tom
2 days ago

What a thoughtful perspective — the double-swing analogy is such a powerful image. When parents actively participate instead of just observing, kids don’t just learn skills… they internalize joy, confidence, and connection.

That principle shows up across so many areas of development. Whether it’s music, movement, or sports, children thrive when families model engagement and make learning something “we do together.” I’ve seen similar growth patterns in youth athletics, where parent involvement shapes long-term habits and mindset.

For families who value building strong performance habits through connection and consistency, there are some great resources here as well:https://www.traindaly.com/

Thanks for sharing such a meaningful reminder about purposeful connection.

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Guest
4 days ago

Trong quá trình đọc các thảo luận, mình có để ý thấy 789WIN được nhắc qua nên thử vào xem cho biết. Mình chỉ xem nhanh tổng thể chứ chưa tìm hiểu sâu, nhưng cảm giác ban đầu là cách trình bày khá thoáng, bố cục rõ ràng, nhìn vào không bị rối mắt.


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